Just a normal update...

Hope everyone there is doing fine :).

There is a ‘Women’s Council’ in our office, which is formed by ladies. They work together for women issues and also arrange for the different programs for women welfare! Women, who have any kind of problems in office, or even in their personal life, they can go and talk to the people in this team. They have appointed a psychiatrist as well.

So, today we have ‘Self Defence for Women’ workshop arranged by this council. I think this is really great and I am definitely going to attain it. It’s really necessary for women to know self defence these days. Plus we are so busy in our routine life that we don’t have (or take) time to do trainings on some important things like this. So when it is done in the office, it really helps to save time as well as learn something new(and it’s free :D). Though, I really hope I will never need to use it, learning something is never waste, right?

A small conversation in this context:
Today morning, one of my managers asked me, “So Prachi, Hope you will not experiment this Self Defence thing on us here! Hahahahah” (Laughs loudly looking at other team-mates)! (Okay, I hate this manager and he thinks this women’s council is something stupid thing formed by women who want to do timepass! Typical MCP! And I just hate such kind of men! *grrrrr*). So my response was, “Emmm.. Let’s see, I hope I will not need it!”. *hee-haa-haa-evil-laughter* ;)

So, this morning conversation made me very happy and gave some kind of satisfaction... I mean *you-feel-nice-when-you-snap-someone-you-wanted-to-from-many-days* thing satisfaction.

Anyways.. hubby dear thinks that I was a bit arrogant... umm.. so what.. Anyways manager is not gonna promote me this year *some-more-evil-laughter*!

Should I?!

Keshi’s post pushed me write this post below.. Some things which are there in my mind since many days and have made me think a lot...

Is forgiveness actually virtue? How much can you forgive someone? And why people don’t forgive you then? I do forgive people. Rather I always forgive people keeping all my self respect aside and talk with the person. But does this mean that, the person has right to take it as his/her victory?
Should I still forgive the person?

The person who shared all his/her secrets with you and you kept all those secrets safe.. And now the person does not even talk to you, just because you did not do one thing for him/her? How selfish is that? What about other hundreds of things you actually did for that person?
Should I still forget everything?

The person who said you as a true friend, now treating you as nobody...
Should I forgive and forget everything?

And inspite of the person being selfish, I still have a corner in my heart, which gives me a pinch when I see the person in pain.. Makes me happy when I know the person is happy.. Makes me very sad that the things are not same between us, as they were...
Should I consider myself an emotional fool?

*deep-sigh*